/grief/index.htm Self Improvement / Grief zh-cn Copyright 2007 <a href='http://www.t-xu.com' target='_blank'>T-XU.com</a> - All Rights Reserved Worldwide. admin@youremail.com /grief/new-tears-about-grievng-with-commentary--aid119420.htm <p>New Tears [about Grieving]</p><p>If it rains or shines</p><p>Little does it matter so?\rDays, like tear drops¡ª</p><p>Slip and slide, and go.</p><p>I sit looking out my window</p><p>Little do I want to say¡ª?\rGoodbye and close my brain;</p><p>Not f 2007-07-27 Grief Dennis Siluk T-XU Articles /grief/death-of-a-parent-saying-good-bye-to-mommy-or-daddy-aid119219.htm <p>Coping with the death of a loved one is never easy, regardless of how old you are when that loss occurs. For children who lose a parent, however, the effects can be devastating, indeed, and a plan will need to be put in place so that they can lea 2007-07-27 Grief Diana L.M.I. Dawson T-XU Articles /grief/the-lesson-of-a-mother-s-death-aid118833.htm <p>Dedicated to my mother, Florence</p><p>November 11, 1920 ¨C May 25, 2005</p><p>The Passing of the Torch</p><p>She lies in peaceful repose on her back with her hands, one atop the other, gently resting on her tummy. Those hands that loved to play t 2007-07-27 Grief Lynn Moore T-XU Articles /grief/why-don-t-we-talk-about-anticipatory-grief--aid118700.htm <p>I know anticipatory grief - a feeling of loss before a death or dreaded event occurs - far too well. My mother suffered from probable Alzheimer's disease and I was her caregiver for nine years. As time passed she lost the ability to reason, trac 2007-07-27 Grief Harriet Hodgson T-XU Articles /grief/handicapped-from-suicide-aid116858.htm <p>I am 23 years old. I come from a large family. I have 2 brothers (6 and 7), and 3 sisters (2months, 17, and 21). We are a very close famly, but I am especially close with my 17 year old sister. Like twins, with a very special bond. For the mo 2007-07-27 Grief Lindsay Blades T-XU Articles /grief/sympathy-messages-aid116114.htm <p>The loss of a loved one. It is often difficult to find the right words to express your sympathy to someone during this time of sorrow. A floral tribute and supportive message can offer much support to those grieving such a loss. Here we list some 2007-07-23 Grief Tenley McDonald T-XU Articles /grief/do-you-know-someone-who-s-dying--aid115507.htm <p>Too many people are dying alone¡­</p><p>The dying are one of society's most unrecognized and under-served groups. As individuals near the end of life they are often ignored, discounted, misunderstood and forgotten.</p><p>We are doing something abou 2007-07-23 Grief Dwight Norwood T-XU Articles /grief/dads-life-and-death-aid115533.htm <p>When he looked at me, it was clear my father wasn't sure who I was. And as I looked back at him, I wasn't sure who he was, either.</p><p>My father had just endured two heart surgeries and 6 days in intensive care. He'd returned to the hospital whe 2007-07-23 Grief Mark Brandenburg T-XU Articles /grief/learning-to-live-again-aid115077.htm <p>Overcoming death and beginning once again to live is the one thing that we never anticipate can happen after we have experienced death. The truth is however, that whether we like it or not life continues on. The decision that we need to make is 2007-07-23 Grief Amanda Evans T-XU Articles /grief/terrorism-worries-10-ways-to-turn-fear-into-hope-aid114570.htm <p>September 11th changed America and chances are it changed you. Images of that tragic day pop into your mind without warning and you have a constant feeling of anxiety. Awful questions come to mind as well. Will the terrorists strike again? Whe 2007-07-23 Grief Harriet Hodgson T-XU Articles /grief/one-stray-tear-aid113818.htm <p>The delight lit my face as the couple turned the corner into the hallway where we stood in lively conversation. I threw my arms open wide, ignored the cell phones plastered to their ears, greeted each of them, first the husband then the wife who 2007-07-23 Grief Ridgely Goldsborough T-XU Articles /grief/angelo-dies-aid113710.htm <p>Angelo C, was a good man that never did any harm. He died \ryesterday in the shower over a severe asthma attack. The \rentire school cried and prayed for their old friend Angelo. \rThey joined in a moment of silence at 2:55 pm to let Angelo \rknow 2007-07-23 Grief Corrine Russo T-XU Articles /grief/beyond-a-mother-s-nightmare-to-radical-forgiveness-aid112956.htm <p>It was a moment I will never forget.</p><p>On February 22, 2003, I was visiting with my son Brian Michael (<a target="_new" href="http://www.BrianMichaelGuthrie.com">http://www.BrianMichaelGuthrie.com</a>) at his home in North Carolina, where I ha 2007-07-23 Grief Linda Miller T-XU Articles /grief/grief-support-the-don_ts-aid110678.htm <p>1) Don¡¯t try to make the grieving person feel better. YOU CANNOT. For many grievers it only serves to make them feel guilty or worse. Grievers MUST experience the pain of grief for healing to ultimately occur.</p><p>2) Don¡¯t tell the griever to gi 2007-07-23 Grief Saundra L. Washington T-XU Articles /grief/grief-support-the-do-s-aid110683.htm <p>Helpers often ask questions such as: "What should I do? What should I say? Am I doing the right thing? Did I do the wrong thing?" Here are some suggestions for how to best help those in grief.</p><p>1) Do give grievers the permission to grieve. Yo 2007-07-23 Grief Saundra L. Washington T-XU Articles /grief/you-can-help-a-grieving-heart-aid109876.htm <p>Oh, we can talk about the best cold medications and if cherry cough syrup tastes better to kids than orange. We can recommend preschools and sneakers. But the hardest part of parenting is the least often discussed. The roughest aspect of being a p 2007-07-18 Grief Alice Wisler T-XU Articles /grief/grief-aid108967.htm <p>I didn't know a heart could die<br>\rbefore it stopped beating.<br>\rI didn't know a life could cease<br>\rbefore it stopped breathing.</p><p>I didn't know how devastation<br>\rcould wend a living soul<br>\rI didn't know how death could make<br> \ 2007-07-18 Grief Saundra L. Washington T-XU Articles /grief/loss-involves-change-the-transformative-power-of-loss-and-change-aid107900.htm <p>There are many experiences in life, which remind us that change is an inevitable part of living. We then have to choose to either to resist this process or look for new ways of finding meaning in our lives. Losing a loved one to homicide, for e 2007-07-18 Grief Clare Mann T-XU Articles /grief/how-can-i-transform-tragedy--aid92674.htm <p>There is only one place where tragedy occurs, and that is in the mind. Tragedy may appear to you on the physical level, however, it is the enormous power of your mind that creates the pain and separation you feel, from Love, from God, from Life it 2007-07-18 Grief Barbara Rose, Ph.D. T-XU Articles /grief/afraid-of-dying-afraid-of-living--aid75126.htm <p>Over the years, I've heard many people voice their concerns of death and dying. It wasn't that they had any maladies that would cause them to die any time soon, but they were "afraid of their own immortality." The basic idea of death, or the pot 2007-07-18 Grief Edward Toupin T-XU Articles /grief/how-to-heal-your-heart-aid74818.htm <p>We all experience severe heart break at some time in our lives. For many it happens in childhood or adolescence, the time when we are most vulnerable. A cold mother, an absent father, being different in any way from our peers and ostracized for it 2007-07-18 Grief Carna Zacharias T-XU Articles /grief/present-moment-awareness-lessons-from-my-dog-aid57943.htm <p>I¡¯ve always waited for the perfect moment to be happy: As though time were a flower waiting to bloom. My scruffy puppy-happy senior dog knows better. Watching his tail wag as he stands in the middle of a mud puddle, I now understand that happiness 2007-07-18 Grief Galina Pembroke T-XU Articles /grief/in-the-blink-of-an-eye-aid55458.htm <p>Today¡¯s Quote: ¡°My house is burned down, but I can see the sky." Sally Reed, cancer survivor</p><p>Thirty five years ago this weekend, my father died. Killed when the Mack Truck Lear jet he was traveling on crashed into Lake Michigan, he died in t 2007-07-18 Grief Carolina Fernandez T-XU Articles /grief/finding-life-s-candles-for-dark-moments-aid54380.htm <p>Tragedy doesn¡¯t make an appointment. It attacks! A terrifying surprise that explodes in the midst of a family. Tragedy brings with it multiple consequences as well¡­financial disaster, depression, guilt and blame. Devastating fallout! Marriages fal 2007-07-18 Grief Ana Tampanna T-XU Articles /grief/dealing-with-grief-and-loss-how-to-mend-a-broken-heart-aid54249.htm <p>What is it about Grief & Loss that upsets us so much? Is it the heavy duty emoting that we have to do to get through our suffering? Is it the fear we have about opening ourselves to all this pain? Because, let¡¯s face it, it¡¯s hard down there, i 2007-07-18 Grief Maurice Turmel T-XU Articles /grief/how-to-turn-grief-into-joy-aid52441.htm <p>I was with my daddy when he died. Excuse me, I was with my daddy when his spirit left his body. I drove him to the emergency room because he was having chest pains. He said that they weren¡¯t too bad, and his color was good. He was still walking.</ 2007-07-10 Grief RobinRenee Bridges T-XU Articles /grief/cultivate-a-friendship-with-death-aid49935.htm <p><b>Why We Fear Death</b></p><p>"Men fear death as children fear to go in the dark." - Bacon</p><p>There may be a thousand reasons why we fear death, but most of all we fear death because we fear the unknown, and death is an unknown entity to most 2007-07-10 Grief Tim Ong T-XU Articles /grief/sympathy-flowers-aid49387.htm <p>Sending a floral tribute is a very appropriate way of expressing sympathy to a family who has experienced the loss of a loved one. Flowers express a feeling of life and beauty and offer much comfort to the family. A floral tribute can either be se 2007-07-10 Grief Tenley McDonald T-XU Articles /grief/understanding-grief-and-loss-in-times-of-war-and-disaster-aid49321.htm <p>There are many different kinds of losses we can experience in our lives. Indeed, loss in human beings has its beginnings in the birth process that separates the infant from the comfort and security of the mother¡¯s womb into a world where survival 2007-07-10 Grief Jan Maizler T-XU Articles /grief/moving-beyond-grief-and-loss-aid48153.htm <p>In my work as a coach and therapist, I have seen many clients dealing with losses of all kinds¡ªloss of loved ones through death and divorce, for instance. These experiences are difficult for everyone.</p><p>Stages of Recovery from Loss</p><p>There 2007-07-10 Grief Garrett Coan T-XU Articles /grief/one-woman-s-way-of-dealing-with-grief-aid47532.htm <p>All of us at one time or another have felt grief: perhaps over a lost job, lost love, or the most heartbreaking, the death of someone we loved dearly. Each of us goes about the task of grieving in our own distinct way.</p><p>When we lose a loved 2007-07-10 Grief Beth Densmore T-XU Articles /grief/how-to-write-a-eulogy-aid47541.htm <p>Remembering someone special in a personal way can be healing for everyone concerned, for a eulogy is a deeply personal way of saying goodbye. The key word is life, and you've been given the opportunity to celebrate a loved one's life in the indivi 2007-07-10 Grief Susanna Duffy T-XU Articles /grief/terminal-illness-death-and-grief-aid47244.htm <p>No one likes to think about illness and death, when we are well, we feel invincible and there is nothing that can prepare us for the shock and devastation of a terminal diagnosis. The knowledge that we can no longer take our lives or the lives we 2007-07-10 Grief Lorraine Kember T-XU Articles /grief/men-and-grief-aid41577.htm <p>Men grieve differently from women. Our cultural roles make it difficult for men to look for support, and harder again to accept it. Men are so often silent, solitary mourners who immerse themselves in activity and private, symbolic rituals. They f 2007-07-10 Grief Susanna Duffy T-XU Articles /grief/healthy-grief-unhealthy-grief-aid32879.htm We all know that it is in one?¡¯s highest good to grieve the loss of a relationship. Healthy grief releases feelings rather than allowing them to get stuck in the body. Healthy grief allows the griever to heal the loss and move on with life.<br /> <b 2007-07-10 Grief Margaret Paul, Ph. D. T-XU Articles