T-XU.COM      
Home |
  Home>Self Improvement>Happiness>
Suffering and Happiness
By Laurent Grenier        [Hits: 27190]



The one feature that sets life on Earth apart from a paradise is suffering. It poses a problem for humanity and calls for a solution. This problem relates to human desires, the satisfaction of which is often difficult and uncertain, if not impossible, and always transient, in need of renewal; it is doomed to end sooner or later in death.

One extreme way of solving this problem is to kill these desires by detaching oneself from their objects, while providing the body with minimum care, or to simply kill oneself. This detachment consists in regarding these objects as illusory or vain. It proceeds from a defeatism or a mysticism. In cases where life offers possibilities of fulfillment in the accomplishment of pleasurable activities and honorable duties, this detachment is premature or suspicious. Like suicide in such cases, it may indicate a morbid disposition, marked by laziness and cowardliness.

The opposite of this extreme way is the foundation of modern civilization. It implies a stubborn attachment to the objects of one¡¯s desires, such as good health, pleasure, mutual love, and success. It also implies a stubborn effort to satisfy these desires.

Now, this effort cannot be effective without a knowledge of the world, humanity included, or the workings thereof. It generates and ultimately meets the need for science, in the broadest sense of the word, and technology, which is the art of making the laws of nature serve human interests.

Furthermore, it produces a feeling of dignity, notwithstanding the errors and the failures that are indicative of fallibility. This feeling belongs to people who go to great lengths to achieve their earthly purpose ¨C in a word, people who abide by this principle: Strive to thrive. It is unique to a courageous life, ever struggling against difficulties and changing, never boring. In comparison, a life of peaceful idleness or an afterlife of restful bliss (by definition as desireless, effortless, painless, and changeless as a mineral) is deadly: a consummate tedium.

Had our ancestors collectively preferred to renounce worldly happiness rather than to pursue it, because this pursuit is inseparable from suffering, humanity would be ancient history preserved in dirt. It would be a fossil for no one to see ¨C no one except various critters that, unlike humans, would not have lost their will to live for good or ill and could be dubbed, for that reason, superior animals.

This advocacy of a courageous life, however, ought to be qualified. In the unlikely event that one should be utterly incapacitated by an illness or an injury and overwhelmed with distress, without the slightest prospect of future recovery and contentment, the renunciation of one¡¯s goals and perhaps even of one¡¯s existence would be a reasonable option. It indeed appears that a stubborn attachment to the objects of one¡¯s desires and a stubborn effort to satisfy these desires would be painfully useless and hence more foolish than brave if this satisfaction is not in any way possible.

Similarly, there are times when the bravest warriors have to admit defeat and rely on their honor to peacefully leave this world through their bleeding wounds. Supposing their final exit is excruciatingly prolonged, a fellow warrior may be right to expedite it at their request, since a sure but lingering and agonizing death seems terribly absurd.

EzineArticles Expert Author Laurent Grenier

Bio: Laurent Grenier¡¯s writing career spans over twenty years. During this time he has broadened and deepened his worldview, by dint of much reflection and study, and in the end has crafted ¡°A Reason for Living,¡± his best work to date.

Official web site: http://laurentgrenier.com/ARFL.html


  Top Articles
*Conflict Resolution Tactics In
*A Gold Medal in Love
*The Seven Day Life-Changing Ha
*Supreme Self-Esteem
*CONTROL...who exactly is being
*Tips To Become Happier & More
*Simple Ways to Have Happy Expe
*See for Yourself : 12 Step Too
*Three Inspirations for Happine
*Money Can Not Buy You Happines
*Overcoming Depression
*Where is Happiness?
  Related Articles
*How To Achieve Absolute Happin
*Happiness - Not Something To P
*What is the Ultimate Lifestyle
*Top 10 Secrets for Being HAPPY
*See for Yourself : 12 Step Too
*Happiness Increases Longevity.
*The Secret to Staying Centered
*Getting Connected
*Clearing a Path for Happiness
*Design Psychology: How to Crea
*Design Psychology: How Our Sen
*How To Be Outrageously Happy


Prev: Learn The 15 Debt Elimination Steps You Must Take Immediately!   Next: Guinea Pigs Health



Home | Site Map | Bookmark this site | T-XU RSS
Copyright 2007 T-XU.com - All Rights Reserved Worldwide.