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Does any other loss equal loss of love?
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By CD
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Have you loved and had the devastating experience of yourbeloved leaving you? Have you felt the pain? Does any other paincome nearer to it? Yes, the pain of losing someone by death maycome near to that. But even that is not comparable. By death,you lose your sweetheart forever and know that she/he is nolonger in this world. But if he/she leaves you, you experiencethe shock that is unsurpassed. You know that your beloved is inthis world itself, but you have no strength to find out where?You have no strength to meet and find out the reason for thebetrayal. You get so numbed with the shock, that you can take nomore pain. So you are left to live with that pain yourself. Andthat life is nothing but death at every moment.
When I cry for my beloved, the tears that I shed are moreprecious than heavenly pearls, says the poet in me. Yes, onecries, and one finds no one to share that cry. If you talk topeople around you about the break down you are facing, they willprobably call you a fool for grieving. After sometime, you stoptalking to anyone about your pain. That keeps the pain insideyou. That kills you slowly, but surely.
Can one overcome this? Very difficult. The very fact that youfell in love that submerged you tells about your personality.Such personalities that give themselves totally away, find itvery difficult to bear the loss of love. Snatch a child awayfrom the mother and measure the pain of the mother, you willfind out what I am talking about. Why does the mother grieve somuch? Because she carried the child in her womb for nine months,she cared for the child after birth, she kept awake for herchild for endless nights and she dreamt for her child at all thetimes. The child was an extension of her own personality. Theloss therefore becomes unbearable.
In the same way, those who love deeply, love their beloved liketheir own child. They care for the beloved like their ownextension. Their love and their beloved become an essential partof their personality. Therefore, when that love walks out, thegrief is immense and the loss immeasurable. What is to be done?No one can say about this. It all depends on the personality.Ifthat person can somehow continue working towards a useful goal,while keeping the pain all the time inside the heart, life canbe carried on for sometime. But ultimately that pain ofseparation will engulf the person. Here is something aboutinspiration to live. Inspirational screensaver1, Inspirational screensaver2 , Inspirational screensaver3 , Inspirational screensaver4 , Inspirational screensaver5 .Download these screensavers. You can also send them to yourfriends. One has to ultimately walk towards something good, andone needs all the help and support for that after undergoing thetrauma.
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